The excuses I have been giving my husband during 10 yrs of marriage why I\'m fat!\n*I have two kids.\n*I work.\n* I have the IUD bith control.\n\nI know the real reasons are:\n. I over eat.\n.unhealthy foods.\n.Im lazy.\n .I don\'t have the motivation \n. I can\'t throw out food at dinner so I eat all the left over.\n. I quit, if I don\'t see results in like a month I jus give up. \n. etc.\n\nI have to do something or my marriage will end soon. I just don\'t know how, where to start.\nI don\'t want to feel like a victim, our sexual life is not active like before, I\'m having this kind of nightmares where he chooses another fit, younger girl.\n\nI just wanted to share \nhave a nice Saturday.